Ethics and Book-Reading
Just this fall break I
was using the 8 steps of ethical decision-making. Earlier this summer, my
family had stopped into a Barnes and Noble. Naturally, while I roamed the
stacks, my mom and sister immediately located the Starbucks and ordered their
drinks, settling down for a long stay chatting in the café. My younger brother,
not ever one to pass up a highly caffeinated and sugary drink, received his
coffee before asking for my help to find a new book to read. We ended up
searching the young adult shelves and found him a book that was part of a
series. Over break, he finished the second book of this series and is now
impatiently waiting for the author to finish the third. I have always
encouraged my brother to read because it’s awesome, and because it gets him off
his staple diet of using either his cellphone or the Xbox. Therefore, I should
have seen it coming when he asked me to read the series myself.
This
is when I recognized my need to react because my first reaction was a very firm
“no.” I did not want to read the young adult novel that most likely featured
angsty teenagers, a pair of said teenagers in love, and the plot set in some
sort of dystopia. Yes, call me a pretentious book snob. I’ve earned it. However,
I did not say any of these thoughts aloud to my brother when he first asked me
because I recognized the need to react. This was something my brother was
highly interested in, and he knew that I loved reading, and he wanted to share
this with me. My reaction needed some consideration. This is when I began to
define the ethical dimension. Normally, I’d say if you tell someone that you’re
not going to read a book he or she recommended, it’s not a big ethical dilemma.
However, like I said before, I had to remember that I was the only bookworm in
the family, I was the one who encouraged my brother to read, and he was trying
to share his experience with me. I could not in good conscious just dismiss my
brother’s request.
Next,
I started to think about the significance of the ethical dimension. I
considered that if I said no to my brother, I could be discouraging him to read
in the future. I was also denying him the joy of sharing and talking about his
reading experience with others, which as an English major, who does this
frequently as a student in class, I felt saddened at this realization. None of
these things I wanted to happen, so I took responsibility for the ethical
solution. The abstract ethical rule that I was applying to the situation was,
funnily enough, responsibility. I felt like I was the one responsible to
promote my brother’s habit of reading, since no one else would really do it at
home, and I was the one who helped him find this book series, so I was
responsible for his love of the novels and my own predicament.
All
of these thoughts went through my mind and had me arriving at the only concrete
solution: to read the book. While I don’t believe all of this emotional
manipulation was running through my brother’s head (if it was, he’s an evil mastermind),
I agreed to read the first installment of the series. Before I acted and
promised my brother to read it, I had to come to terms with the potential
consequences of my decision: future book-reading of dystopias and teenagers.
Lacking any enthusiasm for this future, I realized that my decision still had
the better tradeoff. While encouraging my brother to read, I could also be the
Yoda to his Luke Skywalker and show him the way of good taste in books. My days
reading young adult novels would be limited.
As a final note, if
anyone asks me after winter break (the time in which I promised to read the
book) I can give you my review of Scythe
by Neal Shusterman, so keep tabs.
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